Thanks to everyone here who posted their solid deals and gave me good pointers - you all were a great help both answering questions on the forums and in DMs
I started off by targeting 10% off msrp, and then 16.5k in incentives. Got close to the msrp discount but 15k was the max in incentives - either way the deal worked for me. This took me about 5 days. Took some back and forth but was able to land the exact color I wanted (Plasma Blue) and with the options I needed (Black optic and P+ package).
Over this period, I found picking up the phone and calling dealers was a lot more efficient than emailing or texting the generic response point. Few times I was transferred to the “Costco” manager who was able to give me numbers over the phone, some ppl took a long while and I could sense they were junior or didnt have their managers ear as it was always a lengthy back and forth for every small question.
Anyways lot of the legwork paid off by day 4 when one aggressive dealer was willing to work with me with my assurance that " I will drop everything and drive down to sign it today" – this really helps btw. They are more eager to cut deals when they know they can move it the same day versus some imaginary future appointment
This is probably the best deal I have achieved in terms of % of msrp (leasehacker think was slightly over 10y) and am very happy with it, this is even better than what I received on my earlier Q5e during 2020. And while I had gotten a 6-mo extension on that car, I figured it would be hard to beat this deal for the exact car I wanted even if I waited until Dec and year end
Why 24 mo versus 36? Well for one, since I can always extend it by 6 mos, it becomes more of a 2.5y lease and and all-in payments seemed better w 24 mos versus 36 (62% RV)
Throwing in Audicare for the 2 services increased the monthly by 7 bucks (RV went up 1%) so that was fine - I was kinda indifferent anyways at this point
But the best thing was they did NOT markup the money factor and kept it at 0.00205. Some others were jacking it up to 0.00245 or even higher.
The car drives really well for its size (it is heavy at nearly 6000 lbs) but a really sweet ride and you get 2y of free charging at electrify america
Anyways, hope this helps others