Why don’t you call the dealer and have a better direct line of communication.
derekoh is a dealer
He’s saying you guys can have a private conversation via PM/DM… nothing on the internet goes away 
on the other hand, there’s nothing on tv so… 
it seems like every time i try to pm someone it gets posted as a topic
Just click their name and click the blue “message” button that appears on the window after clicking their name.
thats what i do and it and people comment on it somehow