I don’t think this is the right place to ask for an opinion on a Jeep Wagoneer. Anything that is full size, I’m considering a niche market and usually these SUVs are not leased but purchased. Luckily for some, due to a lot of problems with the first batch it’s possible to get a nice deal on a current year Wagoneers, which by now should not have early day problems. Is it perfect? No, it’s not. But what cars are? There are always people that think they have the worst make/model ever. As for the looks it’s subjective. My wife drives an iX which many people don’t consider pretty. But since it is a BMW and leases well, it does pretty well here.
With that being said the numbers look good and somehow I think you’re considering Wagoneer not to pick up some chicks at a night club . For the rest you can’t get anywhere close, number wise, with the competitive makes/models. So, pick your battles and choose what’s important to you and your your family,
I think the issue with GW is the 22" wheels, air suspension, and suspension parts. I don’t think carbide has air. My air suspension has been replaced twice now and potentially 3 pending what the dealer says.