Camry XSE 371 per month?

so then how realistic is a dealership to drop the cap cost 2-4k?

All you did was reach out? You need to negotiate with your Infiniti dealer, not “reach out.” Nobody is going to give you $300/mo straight out the bat. It is absolutely possible.

Join SCCA and get VPP for Infiniti. Or maybe there is a cheaper way to get VPP that someone can point you towards.

Military can get VPP account. Just signed up a few minutes ago thanks to this forum.