From my experience as the owner of a BMW X5, I never used that Ultimate Care + or whatever covers windshield wipers and brakes. I only purchased it for $600 because I made a few quick calls around and the based on the cost of brake and rotors, I purchased it.
You do not need anything they’re selling. I did paint protection on my car for like $200 by a professional detailer. You are leasing the car so don’t worry about paint protection. At the end of the lease if you have bad scratches, pay $35 for touch up paint directly from BMW then do it yourself or take to a detailer.