The car should never be out of warranty while you lease, so VPP is unnecessary.
Wheel and tire: google how much a new rim/tire is on your car and do that math, my guess is that’s also a no.
Lease-end is excess wear and tear. If your children/dogs are velociraptors maybe, but at $2k I’m a hard pass. I did add it to my Volvo, it covers $6k of excess including tires/brakes and it cost me $750.
You should be able to cancel any you don’t want within 30 days. Don’t contact the dealer, find the insert they gave you for each product in your paperwork to call and cancel.
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One of these is a valuable source of information, and the other is reddit. Now you know.