We bought a 23 XC90 T8 last year and like it a lot. The purchase made sense for the 7500 rebate, CA rebate etc. (it was right before the IRA became effective) because lease numbers and purchase discounts were poor. It works well but won’t impress anyone at school.
For a more impressive car, the X7 seems like the best and we considered it. It was just more difficult to justify because of no EV credit and no gas savings.
Also reconsider if anyone cares or will even look at your car. I got an e-tron GT lately and picked up / dropped off my daughter few times and no one bats an eyelash.
That’s a good mentality that we as a family have always had. I think since we’ve always had this approach in life, my wife wants to be fancy pants for a little bit.
We exceed the income limits for the EV credit so that doesn’t help us.
The answer to this question is always “get a minivan”. Get a decked out Carnival or Odyssey or Sienna. Buy new, extended warranty, drive it until the wheels fall off.
I think the options vary on whether you want an actual 3-row or just something that’s a little bit more spacious than your highlander (which is pitful).
True 3-row options
pre refresh Escalade (2020 or older)
current gen Tahoe/Yukon
X7
Grand Wagoneer/wagoneer
If you are ok with a smaller 3rd row - cpo XC90, new MDX (lots of dealers offering around 5k off of a 23), QX60. Heck even a Grand Highlander or waiting for the LX refresh might make sense.
Ridiculous. Nobody ever should need, want, buy or drive a minivan save and except if you need to have it modified for a disabled passenger or driver with the low entrance height, reinforced ramp, etc. (BraunAbility, VMI and other NMEDA-approved vans). Those are definitely worth it all around.
People complain and talk crap about Toyota/Lexus, but there’s a reason why those on your lists are likely out of your budget. You may be able to get CPO X7 or GLS, depending on year and mileage.
BOF (body on frame) SUVs are the least efficient in terms of packaging and space.
You can compare specs of a Grand Highlander, Pilot or Traverse etc to see how little interior volume, if any, you get for the larger exterior dimensions of a LX, GX, QX80, etc.
On a weekend trip with the guys to Montreal we rented a Suburban. Not sure what they go as CPO but if you want space that is it. 6 men sat very comfortable.