I have no idea what constitutes a good deal on an Acura.
Respectfully, though, this is your money so you should be in charge. I would take a step back and do some more research, and then go back and present the deal you are willing to make based on careful research and feedback from the good folks here.
You already took the last step when you created the thread.
It’s not even a matter of reducing the down payment, but OP seems to not under that because there are heavy incentives, he’s not getting a discount on the car and paying above sticker. Reducing the down payment isn’t enough. You want an actual discount on the car.
Seconded, 225 is buy rate. You can get a discounted 215 if you currently own an Acura, or according to Edmunds, if you pay a security deposit. The two dealers I talked to said there’s no security deposit though
OP look for other recent MDX threads here, including one I posted, though my title probably says Atlas.
For the same down payment you’re paying, increasing your discount will give you cheaper payments. And there’s definitely leeway for negotiation in that discount.
OP. You probably should look for a broker. There are many on here who I’m sure would be happy to help. The deal they’re offering you is a joke and because you haven’t been very well versed in leasing it’s likely you’re gonna get taken advantage of.